A woman as women should be.

I have known many girls in my life, some very beautiful, some very intelligent, every one of them feminine. I am very fortunate as a guy, because very early in my life I overcame my shyness. Over time, this advantage compounded in all the spheres of my life, everyone in my life felt it. Talking to girls have never been a problem for me, I could make them laugh, make them smile, make them interested in me. What is my secret? It is simple, because I am an interesting person.

Over the years I harness the empirical knowledge of the girls around me, soon I have come to believe I have met every type of girl, every permutation of every quality a young female can embody.

Most of the time, they are frivolous, childish, childlike, lacking in depth and quality. If they happen to be intelligent, they would only be knowledgeable and not thinking. That is to say that they might know more than the average person, but neither reflexive nor reflective. They would lament the inequality of females at the workplace while shopping for high heels.

I detest the female pursuit of beauty. I enjoy the aesthetical elements of course, but I detest its pursuit. Girls all around me complain to no one in particular that they are too fat, too thin, too dark. They forget that perfection is not a human trait. They are trying to transcend the physical realm, let us remember that a perfect circle is a mental construct, the perfect circle does not exist in nature, not even the world is in such a shape. Young girls are chasing a fantasy.

A woman should know that perfection is a social mind trick, she should know that she is beautiful in her own skin. She should know the her flaws are her details, her weakness is what makes her different, her strength is what makes her graceful, and her grace is what makes her beautiful. A heart free of ill intent is a heart that has the ability to be like a weightless feather, unimposing to those around her.

Young females seek to perfect their appearance at the expense of hollowing out their inner world. A fickle mind, an ignorant attitude, an inability to sustain thought is all signs of an immature person. Many young females are immature simply because they spend most of their time reserving that which cannot be preserved, instead of enriching that which nothing can take away, a graceful spirit, a sound mind and a big heart.

There was once I stopped believing in such a woman, I lost faith that she even exist. But, of out the blue I met her and she renewed my faith in my approach. Because of her, I now know that I am right. She is a woman as women should be, beautiful in her own skin, simple in her pleasures and gracious in her endeavors.